Ready or Not

Day 1 – Ready or Not

Do you remember playing hide and seek as a kid? That anxious feeling that would twirl in your stomach as you waited to be found.

I bet you also remember how the seeker would count and after “1” would say: “Ready or NOT! Here I come!”

Maybe you hadn’t found your favorite spot yet, but you knew in that moment you had to hide! It wasn’t about the perfect spot—it was about springing to action.

Ready or not — it is time for you to live missionally.

I know you want to make excuse after excuse to justify why you don’t need to be tasked with this endeavor. You want to explain why you need to learn more, know more, and live more like Jesus before you can be a “witness.”

That’s you talking, not God.

In fact, we see in Mark 5 that Jesus sends a man who is freshly converted straight into action sharing the truth.

Mark 5:19–20

19 And he did not permit him but said to him, “Go home to your friends and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you.” 20 And he went away and began to proclaim in the Decapolis how much Jesus had done for him, and everyone marveled.

Ready or not — here I come!

What if being ready is simply about being willing?

One thought to consider today:

What if the most important thing God needs from you right now is not more knowledge, but simply your willingness to be available?

One Action Step:

Write down one sentence about what Jesus has done for you recently (mercy, peace, forgiveness, help). Practice saying it out loud once today—prepare your heart to share it naturally when the moment comes.

Failures in Community - Commitment

Failures in Christian Community - Commitment

Hebrews 10:24-25

24 And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, 25 not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

While we have discussed this week the challenges of Christian community due to our own sinfulness, today I want us to look at a practical reason we are failing in Christian community: consistency. Simply put, we don’t show up. Relationships require time. Relationships require presence. Relationships require investment. YOU HAVE TO SHOW UP! 

I asked on Sunday: Are you willing to do what is required to receive what you desire? We want to be known, loved, cared for, helped, encouraged, and even corrected. If you are not present, none of this can happen. Neglecting to meet together is a problem that must be addressed. Are your schedules busy? Sure. Do things come up? Absolutely. Are there times when you “just don’t feel like it”? I have felt that way too. 

The real issue is a matter of priority. Are you prioritizing being connected to the community? Are you committing to being present even when time is short, schedules are busy, and feelings aren’t there? 

“Sunday church is a Saturday choice.” 

A late night on Saturday is a recipe for a sleepy morning on Sunday. Are you prioritizing being connected and committed to community? I will say this as clearly as I can: Our schedule starting on September 15th is designed to give you access to Christian community in a way that honors your time, location, and busyness. 

As we kick off Groups again in March, we are asking everyone to be in attendance. We are asking everyone to commit to connecting. You play a role in others’ lives, even if you don’t believe you need them in yours. I am urging and pleading with you to be committed to your group. 

Excuses are tempting, but do not neglect what matters. At the end of the day, we are asking you to give 40 more minutes on a Sunday to what we believe will be valuable to you, your group mates, and our church. Be prepared for me to invite you personally. Be prepared for me to ask you directly. However, at the end of the day, I can only offer you healthy spiritual options; you must choose them.

Failures in Community - Coarse Joking

Failures in Christian Community - Coarse Joking

On Sunday after church, a restaurant worker should be able to tell those who attended church not only by the clothes they are wearing but by the language they are using. Sadly, this is rarely the case. 

Listen to Paul’s words in Ephesians 5:4:

4 Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.

Not only is sarcasm common in our daily language, so is filthiness and foolish talk. Our topics of discussion, our language used, and even our shows watched reveal very little difference than those who are not Christians. 

This ought not be so. This is out of place for those who call Jesus “Savior” and “Lord”. Jesus teaches that the mouth speaks out of the overflow of the heart (Luke 6:45). This means that what is in your heart is brought to the surface by your words. 

What are your words revealing? 

What are your words reflecting?

Failures of Community - Harmful Attitudes

Failures in Christian Community - Harmful Attitudes

Ephesians 4:31

31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.

We have all felt ostracized. Left out. Not wanted. We have all felt like we didn’t fit in. Didn’t connect. Were not noticed. We have all heard that someone said something about us. While we may quote “sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” the reality is words do hurt. Words create wounds that remain for days, months, years, and decades. 

How we treat one another matters. Sadly, the long-standing joke is that churches all across our country split over stupid disputes like carpet colors and room decor. It is not simply the color that does this, it is the attitude of the opposing sides. 

Christian community should be a place of reconciliation not revenge. It should be a place of love not hate. It should be a place of honest sharing not hidden slander. Bitterness exists. Wrath and anger bubble over. 

Clamor happens when disagreements are had. Slander is experienced. Malice is too often allowed. Friends, as we seek to live in community, we must combat and correct our own attitudes towards others. 

We need to work on the log in our own eyes. We need to consider what fruit is coming from our life, the fruit of the Spirit or the fruit of the flesh (see Galatians 5:15-23). Your attitude matters. Are you holding it in check? Are you taming your tongue? Are you giving grace or demanding justice?

Failures of Community - Sexual Misconduct

Ephesians 5:3

3 But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.

The last few months in the Metroplex have revealed quite a few failures by church leadership in the area of sexual misconduct. Our church history is also stained by sexual misconduct (see this video for my thoughts). It is infuriating that men and women who have been given leadership in the church have chosen to abuse it for their own pleasure and pursuits. 

Paul is clear in Ephesians 5 that this should not even be named among you. This accusation should not even be thought of in light of you. The temptation of sexual promiscuity is all around. Whether you are seeking it or not, images, enticements, and invitations are being made to pursue what is outside of what is best. 

The stranglehold that sexual sin can have on your life is not foreign to me nor to many close to me. It is a vicious cycle of shame, guilt, fulfillment, and desire. It is always desiring and never satisfying. 

Today, I want you to pray for those who have been hurt or harmed by the church through sexual misconduct. 

Pray for those boys and girls taken advantage of. 

Pray for the victims of abuse of power and position. 

Pray for healing. Pray for help. 

Pray for them to know that God is love even though what they experienced was not. Pray for the victims of sexual misconduct today.